Tech Leadership That Asks the Questions Most Leaders Won’t
I’ve spent 20 years at the intersection of engineering and leadership. I’ve watched tech optimise for speed until the people building it broke. I coach the leaders who are ready to do it differently.
Most leadership advice tells you to move faster, scale harder, and build certainty into everything. I write and coach from the opposite direction. Shared leadership is not idealism. It is what works. And in an age where AI is being used to bypass human judgment rather than sharpen it, that argument has never been more urgent.
I stopped pretending seniority equals certainty.
I have spent 20 years at the intersection of complex code and even more complex human dynamics. I’ve seen what happens when technology outpaces empathy. It breaks spirits. And I have been inside enough rooms where the map was kept at the top and the people closest to the problem were not invited to navigate.
“Shared leadership is not idealism. It is what works.”
That experience is what I write about in Leadership as a Verb — a newsletter and a book in progress. Not frameworks. Not templates. Honest thinking about AI, power, economics, and what we are building into systems our children will inherit.
I am based in the UK. I coach and advise tech leaders, CTOs, and founders globally. And I use AI every day — not to move faster, but to question harder.
The book is being written in public. Paid subscribers get chapters first, as they form. Every Tuesday a free essay arrives. No algorithms. Just thinking.
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The thinking behind the work.
Not how to use AI tools. Not leadership frameworks. The harder questions that most people in tech are carrying privately and haven’t found language for yet.
What we are trading away when we optimise for engagement over understanding. Who benefits from people believing that thinking for themselves is inefficient. What responsible technical leadership looks like when the answer to those questions is inconvenient.
Read: You Do Not Need to Know How It WorksHow technology companies structure power. How the velocity trap catches good leaders. The gap between the face a CEO shows at a keynote and the person who actually runs the room. The real cost of disruption — and who pays it.
Read: How Tech Culture Broke LeadershipWhat tech leaders are building into systems Gen Z will inherit. What it means to be a steward of technology rather than just its user. Your children will ask what you did when you had the power to choose differently.
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